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Reconciliation :
Working towards reconciliation but feeling uncomfortable with husbands behavior

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 SatyaMom (original poster member #83919) posted at 12:02 AM on Thursday, August 28th, 2025

My WH and are working towards reconciling after a porn issue and summer of escorts. We have been working hard for 2 yrs…..he is doing good work but it’s a slow process. Lately, he has been overly attentive to me. I feel like he is oogling me when I workout or by the pool. It’s nice to feel attractive to my husband but the constant comments, looks and touching is honestly making me feel creeped out. Could he have replaced porn with….me? Does this happen? It’s feels awful and I’ve spoken to him about it and he says he’s working on it with his therapist. Am I being ridiculous? 🤦‍♀️

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Formerpeopleperson ( member #85478) posted at 1:02 AM on Thursday, August 28th, 2025

I ogle my wife. I try not to get caught. What I’m thinking is probably TMI.

Porn might be a substitute for my wife; my wife is not a substitute for porn.

It’s never too late to live happily ever after

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Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 1:43 AM on Thursday, August 28th, 2025

What's "creepy" about it?

Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown

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