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Partner and his work colleague

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The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 3:48 PM on Wednesday, March 11th, 2026

My dad was a serial cheater I grow up in a household where I wished my mom would of left my dad. She didn’t until I was mid twenties.

This says volumes.

[This message edited by The1stWife at 3:49 PM, Wednesday, March 11th]

Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.

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Jambomo ( member #74853) posted at 7:26 PM on Saturday, March 21st, 2026

I just feel so stuck, I have glimpses of happiness and think okay we could try to make this work and last year I would of put my all in to it.

Missmee, I know this is hard but you need to realise this is no longer just about his infidelity. He is an abusive man and you are in an abusive relationship. You should never try to reconcile with someone who abuses you.

[This message edited by Jambomo at 7:26 PM, Saturday, March 21st]

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